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Mission EDIFY 
Uniting Ministry Leaders to Affirm Victims of Abuse

 

Enlighten ministry leaders to the unspoken needs of abuse survivors.
Defend human dignity.
Innovate an empathetic teaching on forgiveness & fortiy messengers
Foster sustainable transformation.
Yield to mercy--with justice.

 

 

 

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"Many times they afflicted me from my youth, yet they have not prevailed against me" (Ps 129:2).

Thursday, April 2, 2020 11:33 AM

I Did Not Trust God

Thursday, April 2, 2020 11:33 AM
Thursday, April 2, 2020 11:33 AM

April is National Child Abuse Prevention & Sexual Assault Awareness Month

April 2

I made the call. I scheduled the interview. And then I chain-smoked on the way to the first meeting.

I didn't want to participate in group therapy. I didn't want my horrific past to be my past. I desired a new and improved past. A new and improved me.

Every Monday I begrudgingly showed up with my crappy past. There were ten of us. That's a lot of crappy pasts in one room. At times our stories bled together and the shared pain (much as I despised it) left me feeling not so alone. That was something new. But I lacked the experience to navigate new. New was unpredictable; a fate worse than death for someone like me.

Could I truly embrace a healing process that threatened the signature rhythms of how I got from one day to the next? Coping skills may be artificial light, but I depended on that light to deflect the lurking shadows of everything I fought to hide. 

It was time, and I knew it. An alarm set for adulthood; circa 1999. I did what most folks do when they're not ready to get up.  When the emotional pain superseded my ability to  appear "fine," I knew I'd hit the snooze button one too many times.  

There was a deep sensing that the life I'd longed for would leave me behind if I didn't start moving towards it. Hence, therapy--the monumental mountain with potential mudslides that I set out to climb.

In the months to come, I learned. I worked hard. I did everything the counselor asked of me. But I wasn't free. Something was missing . . . I didn't trust God.

 Faith didn't move any mountains for me as a child. There was no reason to believe it would help me climb this one. By grace, I'm convinced, I challenged myself to pretend that he would listen if I broke my decades long vow of silence. 

I told him everything. What I learned in therapy. How I still hated the way I felt most of the time. I told Him it wasn't fair, and I didn't understand why healing was such a long and difficult process. Hadn't I suffered enough?

I talked, and he listened. I shouted, and he didn't strike me with lightening (not even when I threw my Bible across the room). I prayed. I confessed. He comforted. And the day I cried the way I never could in front of others, he offered his sleeve in place of a tissue, and I swear he smiled over me.

In all of God's listening, my own ears were unstopped. And then, listen . . . the still, small voice: What happened to you matters. YOU matter. 

I felt a flicker of love for myself because God first . . .

Years later, I would come to understand that faith moves the mountains in me.

Q: Has an alarm gone off in your heart? How often have you hit the snooze button? Perhaps it's time to face a painful past or address a situation you purposely avoid. 

Prayer: God in heaven, thank you for internal alarms and the still, small, voice. It is time to heal. I invite you to lead the way. To be my comfort as I seek refuge in your presence. Grace me, please, to be receptive to the folks you place in my path along the way. Amen. 

Peace and good,

Wendy

  

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